December 10, 2009

Giving gifts

Yesterday i had a disagreement with one of my cousins about giving gifts to others especially to ur mates/loved ones.

He thinks that giving gifts to the loved ones are meant to be done pure-heartedly and only for those who you will spend ur lives with. He said he doesnt gives presents to his gf before they got married because he doesnt know whether he will end up with the girl or not. I disagreed with that.

Yes, when u gv a present to a people, it has to be with good intentions but it is also one of the ways to show ur appreciation of the relationship with that person. So what if u dont know whether ur gf/bf will be the one you will spend ur lives with?? Giving gifts must be done with sincerity, bukannye kene bersebab and end up with something that is beneficial to u. And it doesnt have to be pricey, it can be something that resembles ur care or to show that the person is important to u. Like myself, i like giving gifts to my partner and my friends. Whether it's a keychain, wallet, a creative-designed-notebook and even a hand-made card, all i know is i really did it purely, sincerely for that person.

I just had to X him on the face when he said what's the point of giving gifts if he doesnt know whether he will end up marrying with the girl or not. He said it will be like pembaziran. U spent ur money for ur loved ones but u didnt end up together. I was like... "hello~ awat mundur sgt?? perlu ke nak taw dlu kalau ko kawin dgn pompuan tu ke x??" * i think u guys can imagine the looks on my face that time. And who says that u have to menatang kekasih ko tu, buying all the things that ur bf/gf ask for, giving pricey things.. Then it's ur fault la for not knowing how to spend rightly.

Our disagreement ends up when he said,"Tuhan cipta mcm2 jenis manusia, jd saye bukan dlm golongan org mcmtu". Arghh, typical phrase to end a conversation.

So in conclusion, i still x puas hati and ends up writing it here.

sorry folks =P

10 comments:

Nick said...

U ni pon satu...be open la...he's r8 also

he said giving gifts to the loved ones are meant to be done

but he has his wrong oso..about pembaziran and such...

"Tuhan cipta mcm2 jenis manusia"

what's wrong wit tat phrase anyway?lol

Typical phrase to end a conversation?

So how do u wan it to end?

lol

ok...

where's my gift?

im the one that u will spend time livin wit...

ha-ha

Syima said...

Typical phrase to end la. so bile sumone ckp mcmtu, the other person got nothing to say. its a strategy utk menamatkan topik tu dgn cepat.

i cannot be open cuz he is so kemut. xkanla nk bg present card or keychain pun satu pembaziran??? ur gf will treasure it for sure. mmg la x smestinye bg hadiah, but u still need to gv something. i kesian gile kat sape2 yg jd gf die.

oh ur being sarcastic or what? where's mine then?

Nick said...

yours? i gave already did i?=S

Syima said...

bile mase??? u sendri kate kat i that i have to wait

Nick said...

the hand bag...last birthday...
latest not yet...

cuz u hafnt gave mine yet 4 mine yet.

lol

Syima said...

i was talking bout the latest la. xpela. u pun slalu bg lambat kan, so i pun nk bg lambat la kali ni =P

Nick said...

tp i kasi lmbat xde smpai my birthday plak kan.....

so after dis i kasi lmbat jgaklah~
and it goes on..

=_="

Syima said...

la br skali ni je kot i kasi lambat. b4 this mane ade lambat mcm ni. =(

besides my topic bout giving gifts ni bukan on birthday je. on anniversary ke, mase kuar dating ke. i mean like bile2 mase je. bile terase u wanna buy sumthing for ur gf/bf like keychain ke, baju ke, mug ke anything else la. and i x puas ati kat my kazen cuz he thinks giving gifts b4 marriage is crap n bazir. in our case, i bagi jgk gifts kat u kan. yg handmade notebook, cards, the frames sume. huhu.

Nick said...

haha lol chill was jokin oni.

Dun get seriousz~

Syima said...

Sorry but im serious in this.